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Menampilkan postingan dari Juli, 2023

Mindset tentang perbedaan

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Kadangkala ada waktu dimana aku mendapati diriku berbeda pendapat, pandangan ataupun cara menyelesaikan suatu masalah dengan orang lain. Terkadang aku tidak serta merta setuju dengan apa yang orang lain utarakan. Atau, orang lain mengatakan/melakukan sesuatu yang diluar dugaanku, tidak pernah terpikirkan sebelumnya. Pada saat-saat tertentu, terutama terhadap perkataan atau tindakan yang bertentangan denganku, mungkin aku membatin, "kok dia bisa mikirnya gitu ya?" "kenapa dia memilih untuk ngomong begini?" atau "wow, manusia itu bisa macem-macem banget ternyata ya.." atau mungkin "kok ada ya,  yang seperti itu?". Mungkin satu sisi dalam diriku kadang terkejut akan besar perbedaan yang ada antara diriku dengan orang lain. Namun kemudian aku mengingatkan diriku, bahwa aku dan orang lain itu tumbuh dan dibesarkan dengan lingkungan yang berbeda, pengalaman yang berbeda, dengan nilai-nilai yang berbeda pula. Dengan demikian wajarlah jika muncul cara p

First thought

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"This book is so thick, it will take forever for me to complete it," my first thought exactly about a notebook from my friend.  But when I opened some page of it and noticed each paper itself is thick. It's not that it contains a lot of page, it's just because its pages are thick.  First thought sometimes scares us, when we have a conception that things will be hard, not an easy peezy lemon squeeze But when you try to discover, figuring out how things work, it might be not as scary as you first think So maybe some of life part are working that way At first it looks huge and unmanageable. But later you will find way to solve it It does take time, it's not easy, but it's not impossible You just need some work and process to make it an end Just like how you completed reading a story book when you were in elementary school  Good things take time, so be patient and don't quit  Because I know one day you'll gonna make it Hang in there, sweetheart

Sweet notes

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Do you know that I love making sweet notes?  I make them on different occasions It can be someone's special day; like birthdays, graduation, etc Some of them are farewell notes, saying thank you and I love you I think it's sweet when you see a friend's face lightened up as they go through those words you've arranged Just like the way I love it when someone made one for me But don't worry, one day I'll made you one, too It might started as one, but I can't expect how many notes or letters I'm going to write for you in the future Because, we will stay forever, right?  And it will be different from notes I wrote for my friends Because indeed, you're not one of them Not my usual, typical friend You're my friend of life, and to eternity Kindly wait for the time that we'll meet I promise I'll write you notes, maybe a lot of them And please take care until we meet and be one